I complained that my mother-in-law was strange about raising children. My mother asked her to be patient, otherwise she would lose the person who helped her care for the children! As a daughter-in-law

Why is this most suitable for mother-in-law to adhere to their own nurturing methods? Why do mother-in-law thinks that the child is going to be like? Don’t you have to discuss it with your mother? Don't see you.

A mother posted on Dcard saying that she and her husband couldn't stand the way her mother-in-law took care of the baby, but she complained to her mother, and the mother hoped that she would tolerate her swallowing her voice, otherwise she would lose someone who was willing to help her take care of the children.

This is actually a trouble for many mothers. Although this article cannot see whether this mother is working, many mothers "have to" hand over their children to their mother-in-law to take care of them, because compared to giving them to their nanny, the child's own aunt is always more at ease. Of course, there is another point, which is "save money."

The original PO mentioned that she lived with her parents-in-law and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was quite good until Baobao was born. She was even very fortunate to have such a mother-in-law. But recently, everything has changed after Bao Bao was born.

Mother-in-law was a series of unbearable behaviors

"When my husband and I helped Baobao take a bath, he rushed into the bathroom and took the baby away, because the reason was just because he heard the child was crying."

"When my husband fucked Baobao and Baobao stopped because he had hiccups, and the mother-in-law just took the baby over again, and then said, "You won't pick it up, I'll pick it up." Suddenly, the baby arrived the next second. "

"Bao Bao said a few times, and her mother-in-law immediately rushed over and picked up the baby, and then said, "She just wants me to hold it!" I was stunned. Is this considered her possessive desire too strong? I am the mother. I haven't even moved, so she hurried to take the baby away."

In addition, it will also prevent Bao Bao from going to see the doctor. Bao Bao had diarrhea for three days, more than ten times a day. My mother-in-law insisted that "it is normal for a freshman to have diarrhea, and it must be a problem with milk powder, so just change the milk powder." Also, I told my mother-in-law that my baby was afraid of heat, and the mother-in-law said that the European and Northern European Communist Party always said that my baby could not blow the wind, so I put a very thick quilt on my baby. I took off the quilt and was still slapped by my mother-in-law.

The mother-in-law who is "my worst"

Many mother-in-law also have the above behavior patterns, first of all! It is "taking care of children, she is the most harmful." Her approach is right, because this is how she pulls the child (your husband) to grow. Such a mother-in-law cannot accept that someone in the family will handle the family, including taking care of the children. Secondly, you don’t think you are the mother of the child (she is! Ah my grandest!).

This type of mother-in-law really makes people very tired. They have to listen to her everything. If you don’t listen to her, she will feel that you have no respect, no one in your eyes, and no one knows how to thank you (she has worked so hard to help you take care of your children).

For the sake of the child, I can only endure it

Many mothers will have a deep understanding of it. After giving birth, they have to hand over the child to their mother-in-law for care, and they become obedient in many things because they have to be contacted frequently for the child (like the original PO lives together). If they have a dispute to take care of the child, the relationship will become very embarrassing and it is really difficult to bear.

A friend of her side once shared that once she wanted to take the child to the hospital to check why the child's neck was tilted. The mother-in-law said directly, "You can see that he is sick even if he is not sick." She really wanted to reply to her mother-in-law rationally: "Many treatments have golden periods, so I can only feel at ease when I hand them over to the doctor." But she swallowed the words because his mother-in-law was also the kind of person who "no one can resist her opinions."

If your mother-in-law is also like this, thank you for your hard work!