When a colleague or a friend is hospitalized, shouldn’t he go to visit the disease? When is it more appropriate to go? What kind of visiting a doctor can bring to keep the gift? How can we say that when facing seriously ill friends, can we have the effect of encouraging and comforting? People who are sick are particularly fragile, need to rest and warm. Only by doing a good job of visiting and giving gifts can the other party feel the warmth of heart.
Q: My family and friends are hospitalized, should I visit the hospital?Chen Baobao, a senior volunteer at Chiayi Dalin Cijin Hospital, said that for the older Chinese, the parents would feel overwhelmed when they were sick and hospitalized and did not visit the hospital. However, the young people in modern times have different ideas. They would consider their own time and the needs of the other party. They should not visit the hospital, but just look at everyone's thoughts and ideas.
Now the communication software is developed, you can use the phone and real-time communication software to pay attention first, and you don't need to be on the spot. If you need to visit the disease, the general principle is to go there according to the hospital's time and number of people, and wait for the appropriate time before going. If the patient is sent to the nursing ward after a major disease or surgery, there will be a specified time. Taking Dalin Cixi as an example, it is stipulated that half an hour once a day. If a family member wants to visit, it will take up the family time. It is recommended to communicate in advance.
Q: When is the ideal time to visit the disease?If the patient undergoes surgery, it will be more appropriate to visit the patient on the third day after surgery. Chen Baobao pointed out that because the patient must be very tired on the first day after surgery, it may feel unsuitable to wake up from anesthesia. In addition, the pain reduction device after use will make the patient want to sleep, and enough sleep can reduce pain and accelerate recovery. At this time, it is not advisable to visit the patient and call the patient to receive guests. Just by opening your eyes, you may want to vomit.
She also reminded that before visiting the hospital, you must call first to see the patient's wishes. If the other party says that they will wait for discharge from the hospital and return home before visiting the hospital, they must respect the other party's wishes.
Q: The ideal time to visit the disease in the day?It is recommended to avoid visiting patients from 9:00 to 11:00 in the morning. This is the time for treatment and doctors to check rounds; then do not get rid of the time for lunch and nap. Generally speaking, it is better to visit the disease after 3 pm, but many people will use the night to visit the disease because they go to work during the day. As long as the visitor does not have the taboos to visit the disease after the sun goes down the mountain, there is no problem.
Q: Should I visit the patient alone or be a companion? It's better not to exceed a few individuals?If the patient is not seriously ill, he can go to the ward or visiting guest area to talk, and there is no strict number of people limit. Chen Baobao said that if you are visiting the ward, it is appropriate not to exceed 3 people. Taking Dalin Cijin Hospital as an example, it is stipulated that 1 to 2 visitors will be visited at a time. If the special situation is more urgent or the disease is at the end of the disease, everyone will be in.
will stipulate this, firstly, to avoid interfering with other patients, and secondly, the infection rate of more people increases. Chen Baobao said that during the disease period, the patient's resistance is weak, so this is what the hospital should consider.
Q: How long should it take to visit the disease?Unless the patient is a very familiar friend and willing to let you accompany you for a long time, it is generally best to visit the patient within about 20 minutes. Chen Baobao reminds you not to "car fight" when visiting patients. Come one after another, which will make the patient very tired. Especially for patients in the terminal stage, don’t keep calling him or snatching him, and ask the patient if he knows who he is. She said that the car fight is very tiring for patients and their families to talk to, and their families also need rest.
Q: Should we follow the taboos of traditional visits?Chen Baobao said that the ward does not say "bye-bye" taboo; it is generally recommended that those who have trouble at home should not visit the disease at any time; the elderly also have traditions that they will not visit the disease after the sun goes down the mountain, but for young people, there may not be these taboos.
In July, most patients are afraid of hospitalization, and their thoughts are now clear. Some people say that July is a good month and a compassionate month, which is more unpredictable, but some people still learn that they should go to visit the hospital in July, wear mugwort on their bodies, and do not touch the patients, for fear that the patient's illness will be over to themselves.
Chen Baobao said that some volunteers who are more traditional will feel that they can help patients with massages, and their illness will be over to themselves, without wanting to contact patients. She believes that help is a kind of reward and reciprocity, and she will send positive energy to the patient, and of course the other party will also return the energy that is good to you.
Q: When it is not suitable for visiting the disease, how do you suggest to express your feelings?Nowadays, communication software and video are very convenient, you can use the phone to pay attention first. Chen Baobao suggested that he could also write a large card and write some encouragement and blessings. Patients can read one by one at a time, and their hearts are not alone. They will be concerned by many people from the content, and the power of love is also huge.
You can also send blessings from LINE or send some videos that can make the patient happy, because when you are happy, the cells will also be happy, and when you are smiling, the body will naturally get better and better. You can also record a paragraph in a voice so that the caregiver can play it for the patient to listen. The voice will be more warm and can be played repeatedly.
Chen Baobao mentioned that there was a serious dementia grandpa who would say I love you to the photos of the grandma on his tablet, chatting and talking about romance. His family could put photos on his tablet so that the patients could see them, and even share them with volunteers. As for the patient who is deceased, he can speak lightly in his ears, which can also make the caregiver feel at ease and feel as if he is attentive.
Taiwanese people come to the hospital to visit the hospital and bring gifts with gifts, and all kinds of flowers, fruits and supplements are common items. But many people don’t know that there are actually many "brow corners" when visiting the disease and sending gifts. One mistake in the gift will not only affect the patient’s condition, but also worsen the condition and affect the recovery of the serious cases, but also greatly reduce the heart of the gift. For patients with allergies, kidney disease, diabetes, and just having a knife, there are actually taboos in visiting patients, so that doctors and nutritionists can tell you.
"Give away flowers and flower pots to show the best, but there is a prerequisite!" Liang Zhenglong, deputy director of the Medical College of Yishou University, said that some patients usually get well and all kinds of flowers are placed in the ward. However, many patients are allergic to pollen. Some people choose to wipe the flowers off, but some people pile flowers in the aisle outside the ward, causing trouble for medical staff or other patients. It is recommended to ask the patient if they have allergens before sending the gift.
Telection of folk remedies and talismans when visiting the disease? It is not advisable to protect amulets, and it is not suitable to "eat".In addition to food and fresh flowers, visiting patients in Taiwan can also see people sending gifts with folk remedies or folk belief items. Liang Zhenglong said that the hospital would not allow patients to receive this kind of gift, but if the talisman obtained by the Yuyu was sent to the patient, the doctor would not stop it, but if the food to eat was to be eaten, it would be avoided. "This gift can comfort or calm the patient's psychologically, and feel blessed in faith, and doctors usually don't have any opinions." Some people also give patients various folk remedies, but from the perspective of medical care, they are not recommended.
Visit the disease and send nourishing supplements? No supplements containing Chinese medicine are recommended during the acute period of hospitalization. 1. When talking about supplements, we have to mention common humans, sycamore, chicken essence, etc. Liang Zhenglong said that the key is whether too many Chinese medicines are added, such as humans, which will affect the coagulation function. If the patient has hemorrhagic diseases or has children, women should avoid it. He believed that "don't give any supplements containing Chinese medicine during the acute period of hospitalization." After all, the commercial supplements may contain a variety of medicines, and it is recommended that Chinese medicine supplements be given only if the symptoms are mild. 2. Chicken soup and chicken essenceLiao Wei presented that many people will give chicken soup. If the soup is milky white, it means that the amount of oil is high. It is not recommended for patients with cardiovascular and hyperlipidemia. If you add alcohol or Chinese medicine, it will also affect the recovery of the disease and the compatibility of the mouth. Chicken sperm and drip sperm are low-heat amino acid supplement foods, suitable for supplementing strength and improving fatigue, and have no practical help to the disease. They also contain Prim and Phosphorus, which also needs to be paid attention to.
Visit the disease and send fruits? It is not suitable for gastrointestinal patients, and diabetics are most afraid of sweetness.Liang Zhenglong said that the gift that is commonly seen in visiting patients is fruit, which seems to be a safe brand, but there are also taboos. "Some gastrointestinal patients just cannot eat, and no matter how expensive the fruit is, they are not allowed to eat it." Often, it turns out that the family members who care about the patients eat these fruits. Although it is still a pleasure, it is recommended that the gifts meet the needs of the patients.
1. Diabetic patientsEspecially diabetic patients should avoid high-sugar fruits, such as pears and honeydew melons. Liang Zhenglong said that diabetics have poor rejuvenation due to illness, and eating sweet fruits will increase the recovery time after surgery.
2. Bone patientLiang Zhenglong specially reminds kidney patients to avoid fruits with high calcium, phosphorus, and too high altitude, such as high-calcium yang peach, high-phosphorus grapes, etc. "Eating a small amount is not harmful, but I still hope to give a gift to the other party's disease."
3. pharmacist Liao Wei, a gastrointestinal surgery patient, said that when delivering fruits, you should pay attention to the patient's ability to eat or chew poorly, the fruit will become "can't eat if you can see it", and it may even grow fruit. If the patient has completed the kidney surgery, it must be accompanied by a low-slag diet. At this time, he will receive a high-quality water pear gift box, which is a big burden for the patient. In addition, fruits during the season are usually fragrant and sweet, which is even more taboo for patients with unstable blood sugar. 4. Avoid affecting others' fruitsThe nurse Huang Tingwei, who has worked in the hospital for many years, shared a forgetful case. A patient secretly brought a whole durian to the ward to visit the hospital. The whole building was filled with the smell of durian, and the nurse found that he was busy stopping it. Unexpectedly, the patient was discharged from the hospital afterwards, and he also sent Duoge to the hospital to thank the doctor, which made them laugh and cry. Huang Tingwei said that visiting the patient can not only make the patient feel relieved, but also avoid affecting others.
Responsible editor: Gu Zihuan