Mom wanted to let go of her own Tokyo trip but was rejected! My husband said, "Why can t you do it when you take your kids to Disney with one or two?"

 7:59am, 3 July 2025

Being a mother is a kind of happiness, but there are too many sacrifices, and the only taste in your heart is the only one who drips it. Think about how long has it been since I was a mother that I haven’t sang KTV with my friends, went shopping, made hair and nails, or even went abroad to play? Sometimes, we just want a little time with ourselves, and we can do it in a certain afternoon...

He can, why can't you?

Euro-Yang Jing often accompanied his son's new sauce to travel and experience life, and shared his experiences on his face fans. Recently, he went to Tokyo with one blow and a one-on-one. Not only did he have amazing physical strength and perseverance, but he also brought the public a lot of positive energy.

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However, some netizens complained to her privately that she had not been abroad since she was a mother. She was planning a trip to Tokyo recently. However, because she really needed to relax, she didn't want to take a 3-year-old child and wanted to take care of her relatives or nanny for a few days, so she asked for advice from her husband and husband's family.

As a result, her husband told her mother-in-law: "Euroyangjing can take children to Disney with dozens of children, why can't you take children?"

歐陽靖時常分享和新醬一起出去玩的日常。圖片來源/FB@GinOy 歐陽靖、新醬出去玩

9月時一打一帶著新醬同遊東京,留下美好回憶。圖片來源/FB@GinOy 歐陽靖、新醬出去玩

Taking a child is not a personal responsibility of the mother

"Then why don't you take the child away by yourself? Anyway, it's not difficult to take a child. Euro-Yang Jing can play one by one."

Euro-Yang Jing shouted that caring for children is not a personal responsibility of the mother. However, this weight loss of 80% will fall on the mother. While talking about the mood to the mother, why don't you think about what you can help in parenting?

Then everyone seemed to be mistaken that she likes to take children? Euro Yangjing admitted: "Is it really a last resort... If I had a strong supporter, I wouldn't have a fan of "New Sauce to Go Out" now! I may invest more effort in my career, travel, and writing... and there will be completely different family relationships between me and New Sauce."

Yang Jing encouraged his mother to be suitable for her. "Not bad, when there is only one road left in life, I must walk with my head and chest up."

I must take care of my children alone, but I don't want to give up my favorite overseas trip because of this, so I must give myself the ability to play one-to-one and completely give up the so-called me. Time and relaxation, just to strengthen the body and mind, and to work with children during the trip and find each other's greatest happiness agreement.

The encounter in life gave me the best, most caring and most devoted travel companion in history, but the parenting pressure I had received before this also failed to crush me a little.

"If there is a choice, no mother must bear the pressure."

I often encourage my mother to "stop" (laughs), but I don't want to be a mother for a few days, so that my teammates can take responsibility. (But this is just a spiritual encouragement, because of motherhood, mothers are always unable to be free...)

Traveling abroad with children is either paradise or disaster. As long as you have the first experience, you probably know if this child is worth taking him out before he became sensible! If you have the ability and the amount of money, you can definitely try it, but if the purpose of your adult travel is pure and relaxed, childcare is the best strategy!

I hope that the netizen's gentleman and mother-in-law can see this article: "Is your wife (daughter-in-law) a single mother? No, right? Why can't the family help her and let her relax?"

The children will understand

Euro Yangjing said that he was very lucky and found a way to interact with his children early. Now he is not interested in traveling alone or only adults.

"I want to carry a new sauce everywhere because I want to share all the smiles on the journey with him." Even if you haven't done a good job of getting along with your child, it doesn't matter if you want to escape at a while. Life is very long, and every child comes to this world after the parents he chooses, and he will understand!

She also attached a photo of her two dozen or one playing with Xinshu to Tokyo Disneyland: "I played 7 facilities and didn't leave until 9 pm. My mother was so painful that she seemed to be caught by a car! But Xinshu was super well-behaved, very happy, and had a wonderful memory...it was worth it!"

Netizen: Tell me about it!

Netizens left a message: "Really, my mother has no life afterwards, and everything is the first priority", "Mom is also a human being, not an iron machine", "Please be more dissatisfied with being forced", "Mom understands mother's hard work", "No one is born to like taking children, which is the same as no one is born to like doing housework."

"From the new mother, I learned that for things that cannot be avoided, if it can change the mood, it can also be one thing Happy things", "I like to travel with my children, but occasionally I also want to travel with my sisters alone..."

"Mom really needs a little space", "It's easy to bring you an extremely relaxed time", "Leave a business article!"

Some things we don't have the courage or can't say directly, thank you, Jing can help us speak; even if you just read the article, you will be cured in an instant. Mom, remember to give yourself some time. Only when your mother is happy and your emotions are stable will your children be happy.