In the second day of the Spring Festival, the custom of returning to my mother's life is not only the boats, but also the problem of red bags, and all kinds of sweet and bitterness are in my heart. A husband complained that going back to his parents' home on the second day of the Chinese New Year was a painful thing for him. In order to give his mother-in-law a red bag of 12,000 yuan, he made him lose "unfilial son-in-law" before his relatives, and was forced to give red bags to a group of relatives who never knew who they were, which made him swear, "Why do you have to go back to his parents' home in the second day of the Chinese New Year?"
A husband wrote in "Anonymous 2 Commune" that "returning back to his parents' home in the second day of the Chinese New Year"… for most husbands It was happy, but it was the most painful day for me! "The story was like this. The original PO said that every year, he would drive to his wife and children to his family in the middle of the second day of the day. He remembered that in the third year of marriage, he gave his mother-in-law a red bag of 12,000 yuan for his mother-in-law during the Chinese New Year because of little money. He also bought two souvenirs. However, his mother-in-law lost in front of his friends and was an "unfilial son-in-law", which shocked him. Since that time, he has given his mother-in-law a fixed bag of 30,000 yuan every year, and so far, it has increased to 36,000 yuan.
The original PO said that he had been married for more than 20 years, and he drove back to his mother-in-law's house before dawn every year, and then took his mother-in-law and his brother-in-law to his mother-in-law's home. The two of them often smelled of wine and smoke, which made the smell very bad on the car. When I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, I had to face a bunch of relatives who were never clear about who was. My mother-in-law pulled me and said, "This is XXX, I want to give a red bag" and "This is XX's child, I want to give a red bag". I was constantly forced to give a red bag to "strangers". Then, they were smoking, drinking, gambling, and singing karaoke all day. There were times when they almost started playing, and they could only sit on the sofa and watch the crowd without doing all day, and they kept trying until 8 or 9 pm when my mother-in-law felt satisfied. He just told them to go home and then go back to his own home, making him displeasedly complain, "Why do you have to go back to your parents' home in the second grade of junior high school?"
The story was revealed, and netizens left messages to respond, "I'm sorry for my mother-in-law", "Every family has a difficult book, thank you for your hard work", "Discuss your wife, you really can't go back", "I think you want to communicate with your wife yourself, right?", "You can load them away and leave. Okay, come and go back!"
Regarding the divorce of the former PO mother-in-law, more people are curious about why their wives "have no sound?" The original PO also issued a document stating that although the wife's family's behavior was too remote, the wife loved herself very much and was completely different from her family. Because my father-in-law passed away unexpectedly before they got married, only my mother-in-law was left. The wife was as tolerant as her mother-in-law's behavior and gave her 10,000 yuan a month to her family. Over the past 20 years, she has also helped them many times. But the effect is not good. Because I love my wife very deeply and respect her, I can endure as much as possible in the bottom line that I can bear, and I will not come if I can.
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