According to Maslow's "demand dynamics theory", the higher the self-value, the higher the emotional value of a person, that is, the higher the level, the more time and energy they will devote to real self-value, rather than spending on negative emotions, the same is true for women.
The lower the level of a woman, the better the higher the distance, the higher the higher the higher the higher the lower the 9}"Sister, you are so stupid, why did you get married like this?"
"Can my brother-in-law's job afford you?"
My cousin is a typical enjoyment theorist. He can do nothing and doesn't want to do anything. He just wants to give a golden son-in-law a lifetime. Her ideal is to find a husband with money, and then beautify, go shopping, and buy every day, but where can I find such a life? Now she is 28 and is still single. She doesn't like a man who is not good enough. She doesn't like a man who is very good. She doesn't like her very good man, and her cousin doesn't have much ability. When can I find her partner? I'm really anxious for her!
Analyzing from a psychological perspective, if you want to fly to the branches and do not measure yourself, many women are harmed by their "virtuous" personality. In fact, when you choose others, others are also choosing you. Whether you cannot secretly care about life or feelings, you must steadily improve your abilities and conditions, otherwise you will be empty and have nothing in the end.
The lower the level of a woman, the less she wants to improve and settle down in the present situation.The last eight years of love marathon ended, but the result was not a marriage. He broke up with me, and he said I was not interested in going online and watching TV shows, which was boring.
"When I was dating in college, wasn't that the same thing? Why didn't he say? After 8 years with him, he said that he deserves his conscience and my youth? Yes, we graduated together and entered the same company together. He is now the vice president. I am still just a young employee, but I am just a little woman. I work so hard, just work hard with him!"
This woman ignored a little. The reason why men and women can attract each other is because they are in love and have similar interests. If a man does not have the same value orientation as you, can he still be with you for a long time? From a psychological perspective, the lower the number of women, the more stable the picture is, and they don’t want to work hard.
The lower the level of a woman, the less clear the self-positioning, and she often thinks that she is too high"I have changed almost 5 jobs from less than 2 years since I graduated from now. When can I find a suitable job?"
"I only worked for one month in my first job, and I just worked overtime for one day after working. Death.
The second job was done for 3 months: Is the work meal eaten by people?
The third job was for 5 months for the mother's face: it was too far, it took an hour on the road every day.
The fourth job was done for 3 months: There were too many women, and I was always jealous.
The last one, I don’t have to buy makeup… I have to look for it again;"
This woman is a "reproachful person" and always thinks that it is unfair to treat her. She doesn’t look at anything, so she doesn’t want to give, just want to live a life, and tell her The number of files is very low, and there is no job that I have been working for a long time. Either I think it’s bad to abandon my boss or my colleagues, or I think it’s not high. Anyway, there are always reasons, but I never look for reasons from myself. From psychology, the lower the number of a woman, the more I feel that any job is not suitable for me.