In the 1960s, the Republic of China, Bai Carrie, who was once the most famous in Taiwan and known as the "most beautiful host", is back! After more than 40 years of marriage to Indonesia, I compiled my past records, "Bai Carrie Looking Back", which recorded the memories and elegant ways of life from growth, work to marriage.
has always been called "the most beautiful host". Bai Jiali, what does Bai think of the beauty of life?
Bai Carrie, born in 1949, has a dramatic life. Her parents are not in harmony with each other and still love her daughter very much. Because she joined the Blue Tiankang Group in the army at the age of 16, she then became the screenwriter of the Central Hotel. At the age of 19, she became the most famous host of Taiwan Video.
At the most important moment, in the Republic of China, she suddenly announced her marriage to Indonesian wealthy businessman Huang Shian'an in 1966, and quickly and comprehensively left the Taiwanese opera circle.
When marrying a foreign country, you must not only work hard to adapt to a completely different culture and life, but also face the lonely time when your husband is busy and often away from work. Bai Jiali has had a difficult period of trouble. How to keep his marriage harmonious? Her answer is old-fashioned: "Give me a gift." "Martial pants should be kept healthy, that is, they should be able to cultivate their own interests and focus. "
Huang Shuan An is busy with work and has less time to accompany him. In Indonesia, which she can’t even see and see in a Chinese newspaper, painting is the best company of her heart. "Once you pick up the painting, forget about the trouble," she said.
Bai Jiali uses local materials and the painting is filled with beautiful flowers. "The Yafeng District was originally a big garden with various flowers!" She said that the most beloved flower is called "Garden Li Yalan", because this flower has her name. When you see beautiful things, your mind will be calm.
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Another thing that benefits her a lot is her travel habit.
When Bai Jiali was a host in Taiwan, she said that she was smart and said that she was quite relaxed in learning English, Indonesian, Spanish, Portuguese and Japanese in the future. In addition to being born with a talent for language, she believed that traveling around was one of the reasons for learning quickly.
Bai Carrie said that the world has been changing, and "using herself who has been changing, to face the ever-changing world" is the best solution, and it is also a secret that she has been able to adapt well no matter what difficulties she encounters for many years.
Art of not being able to be forced to ask for something, but cherish the other learning that Bai Jiali had after marriage, which is not strong.The new book revealed that she had always wanted children, but after marriage, she found out that Huang Shuan already had children, so she had already been cut off. How could Bai Jiali explain this important matter and still walk with her husband?
Bai Jiali chose to say: "I found that no matter whether it is a relative, a child or a friend, if there is no separation, everything will be strong." She relives again. Facing the fate that cannot be strong, what she can do is to treat the children she had before as her own child, and the relationship between the two sides is still good.
"Even teeth can bite the tongue, why is it a couple?" Because of her broad heart, Bai Jiali has the wisdom of high emotional intelligence when dealing with conflicts between husband and wife.
She has the most difficult advantage that ordinary people can achieve is: "I won't kill people."
She said that she was born to be unable to speak hard to hear, and often she didn't know how to do it when she was angry. Because of this, she often had a lot of restlessness at the moment, which could make people feel cold and avoid many bigger conflicts.
For example, there was a small conflict between two people, and the husband was so angry that he fell out of the door. She had no idea how to slap people, so she could only sit still. However, when the husband came back to apologize to her, she replied with a smile, "In fact, I think you just fell down the door very well! However, before you fall next time, please lock the crystal light on the ceiling of our house a little." She used humorous method and stabbed the door too much force to resolve the conflict.
After several exams, couples can get along better. Bai Jiali realized that since each other is the only time to get along in this life, it is better to cherish all the time to stay together.
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Huang Shi'an often travels around for business. In order to allow Mr. Bai to enjoy the food at home and learn how to cook, she will teach the chef how to cook whenever she goes to a suitable restaurant and collect dishes from all over the place. In this process, I have developed a good skill!
Because of her careful care, Huang Shian, who was originally declared to have liver cancer and his life would not last more than half a year, lived safely and healthy for 18 years.
"So every day he is here, I think I am a reward and give him all my love. Until now, I often find friends. No matter what happens, I can adjust myself and overcome difficulties and rely on myself."
Because of such a deep affection, when Huang Shian An died of pneumonia in 107, Bai Jiali felt it was hard to accept it. After 41 years of being with her, she lost her home. How did she pass by?
"The days afterwards were full of fear and fear. When I was alone, my eyes kept flowing. "So she began to travel non-stop with her friends, first of all, she followed her church members to Israel, and then went to Australia and the United States to get together with her friends. She believed that although these were superficial mood shifts, "as long as there was a little bit of shift, it was good!"
Bai Jiali believed that the time process of a mature couple needed the help of her friends, so that she could go out and expand new life space as much as possible, and find her true love to make her mind stable.
Definition of beauty: At every stage, do everything wellBai Jiali is over 70 years old, but she is still beautiful and noble, and has a tall and upright posture. Will ordinary people ask her how to take care of her? Bai Jiali smiled and said that she had no special care. The only secret recipe was to get up early and exercise. She has always maintained a self-controlled and good life habit. She got up at 5 a.m. and played golf at 6 a.m., maintaining a fixed rhythm of life. She reads paintings on weekdays to nourish her soul.
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Everyone calls her "the most beautiful host". When she asks her own definition of beauty, her answer is: "Every age of women has different beauty. In every stage, if you do everything seriously and better, it is beautiful."
Recalling Bai Jiali's life stage, as a host, she claims to work hard and become a generational style in Taiwan; as a wife, she learns to be tolerant and devoted, and accompanys her husband to the final path of life. As the "most beautiful host", she is worthy of her own definition!
Original text: The secret of a life of elegant elegance! The most beautiful host Bai Jiali: It is not a scam, it is also a care